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Loneliness, Dating, and Spending

• Many see the core issue as male loneliness and lack of romantic options, exacerbated by modern dating and apps.
• Some argue $20k over four years is a sign of serious problem/addiction; others note it’s comparable to or cheaper than costly IRL dating or relationships.
• Several comments highlight how prolonged exposure to idealized porn/OFF models can distort attraction and expectations for real partners.

Responsibility vs. Victimhood

• One camp emphasizes personal responsibility and lack of self‑control, likening this behavior to problem gambling.
• Another stresses these men are genuine victims of manipulation; if genders were reversed, commenters say, people would be quicker to condemn “victim blaming.”
• There’s recognition that intelligence doesn’t reliably protect against romance scams or emotional manipulation.

Deception, Fraud, and Platform Liability

• Strong disagreement on whether OnlyFans is directly culpable for fraud.
• Some argue OF is just an intermediary, with TOS placing responsibility on creators and making enforcement of “who is typing” practically difficult.
• Others insist this is clear-cut deception: customers believe they’re chatting with the model, but are often talking to third-party “chatters.” They argue platforms must exercise due diligence, similar to regulated gambling or advertising.

Comparisons to Gambling and Other Vices

• Multiple parallels are drawn to gambling addiction and other “virtual narcotics” (gaming, social media).
• Some call for regulation or even bans similar to hard drugs; others warn against paternalistic overreach and point out that much of society already runs on manipulation of human impulses.

AI, Chatbots, and Scalability

• Several speculate that LLMs could (or already do) replace cheap human chatters, especially for scale.
• Others note current mainstream models block explicit content, but uncensored/local models and “AI girlfriend” services already exist.
• There is discussion of a possible non-deceptive model: openly fictional or AI personas that still sell fantasy and parasocial interaction.

Ethics of Porn, Sex Work, and OF

• Opinions diverge on sex work: some see it as an inevitable, regulatable human constant; others think platforms like OF are uniquely pernicious by monetizing fake intimacy with socially isolated people.
• Concern is expressed that this business model fuels addiction, distorts relationships, and crowds out other online spaces via aggressive funneling and advertising.