Unfortunate things about performance reviews (2021)

Toxicity and Incentive Problems

  • Many see performance reviews as political, vibes-based processes only loosely related to actual work quality.
  • Outcomes often hinge on how a manager feels about you; the same facts can be framed as “huge impact” or “poor judgment.”
  • Quotas on ratings and forced curves create zero-sum competition among coworkers, undermining psychological safety and collaboration.
  • People describe reviews as likeability contests or CYA paperwork rather than genuine feedback mechanisms.

Manager Power, Bias, and Trust

  • A recurring theme: “people join companies and quit managers.” Once you’re on a manager’s bad side, neutral actions are interpreted negatively.
  • Some note that alignment with company strategy and visibility to leadership heavily outweigh raw effort or technical excellence.
  • Others argue misalignment is often a management failure: not setting clear goals, sending mixed signals, or rewarding the wrong work.

Peer Reviews and 360 Feedback

  • Peer input can give managers visibility into unseen work and is considered better than manager-only judgment by some.
  • Others say peer reviews are easily weaponized, encourage “throwing coworkers under the bus,” and damage trust.
  • Several commenters adopt a personal rule: never put anything in writing that could be used against a coworker.

Legal/HR Uses and Layoffs

  • Reviews are widely seen as legal CYA for firing or selecting people in layoffs, not just performance management.
  • Some report being forced to rewrite reviews until they match predetermined ratings.

Quotas, Calibration, and Compensation

  • Rating distributions are often fixed in advance to match a compensation budget.
  • This leads to good performers in “high bar” orgs being under-rewarded and weaker performers in “low bar” orgs protected.

Employee Coping and Alternatives

  • Common coping advice: minimize written criticism, manage upwards, and leave when environments become “unbearable.”
  • Suggested alternatives include: continuous feedback instead of annual cycles, separating feedback from pay, seniority systems, team-set salaries, and more human, conversation-based management.
  • There is no consensus “best” replacement; most see current systems as the “least bad” given constraints, but badly implemented in practice.