I am rich and have no idea what to do
Wealth, Purpose, and the “Post‑Goal” Void
- Many see the author’s crisis as a fast‑forwarded version of retirement/FIRE: life was organized around “win the money game,” and once won, the game feels empty.
- Several argue that work itself isn’t the problem; humans need challenging, meaningful effort, not necessarily paid employment.
- Others note a subtler issue: when survival and status are no longer at stake, projects can feel optional and thus less meaningful.
Philanthropy, Volunteering, and Helping Others
- Strong current: use “excess” wealth to directly improve others’ lives (cash transfers, local schools, shelters, affordable housing, training programs, climate and public‑health causes).
- Some suggest formal philanthropy or foundations; others emphasize low‑ego, local volunteering and anonymous giving.
- A minority dismisses the “too much money is a problem” framing, arguing the obvious solution is to give most of it away.
Therapy, Introspection, and Worldview
- Many recommend therapy or coaching to unpack identity, insecurity, and status‑drivenness, rather than chasing new grand missions.
- Philosophical and religious angles appear: existentialism, Buddhism, Christian teachings on wealth, and the idea that money exposes rather than solves inner issues.
Relationships, Family, and Community
- Several see breaking up with a supportive partner and calling coworkers “NPCs” as red flags of self‑absorption.
- Children, family life, and deep friendships are repeatedly cited as robust sources of meaning that are largely independent of wealth.
- There’s caution about telling friends how rich you are; money often poisons relationships via loans, investments, and shifting power dynamics.
Money, Capitalism, and “FU Money”
- Some celebrate capitalism as having enabled upward mobility; others see the post as peak Silicon Valley delusion and humblebrag.
- Debate over how much is “FU money” ranges from low six figures plus frugality to “tens of millions isn’t actually that much.”
- Several stress that constraints and risk are key to motivation; total freedom easily leads to aimlessness or self‑destruction.
DOGE, Government, and Tech Saviorism
- The stint with DOGE (government “efficiency” effort) draws heavy skepticism: concerns about austerity, privatization, lack of democratic accountability, and billionaire influence.
- Some argue technologists systematically underestimate the complexity and politics of public finance and social programs.
Concrete Alternatives for the Author
- Suggestions include: deep study (physics, philosophy, music), starting non‑profit or “fun” businesses (bookstore, museum, robotics lab), supporting open source, or funding overlooked climate and housing work.
- A recurring theme: stop chasing “be the next Elon,” accept being “insignificant,” and focus on cultivating empathy, hobbies, and service to others.