Lessons in creating family photos that people want to keep (2018)

What Makes Family Photos Meaningful

  • Ordinary life and candid moments are valued far more than postcard landscapes or posed “people in front of landmark” shots.
  • Including people in scenes (even minimally) makes travel and landscape photos much more memorable.
  • Mundane activities and context (room layouts, furniture, gadgets, streets, shops) become historically fascinating over time.
  • Two broad “legacy” categories emerge:
    • Posed group shots people look at while everyone’s alive.
    • Candid shots of people doing what they were known for, which become the real keepsakes after they’re gone.
  • Multiple posters stress: take photos of parents and relatives doing everyday tasks, and include the usual environment.

Digitizing Old Photos & Videos

  • Many describe large scanning projects: using consumer photo scanners, slide scanners, mirrorless + macro setups, or outsourcing.
  • Outsourcing still-image scanning can be surprisingly cheap; video transfer is seen as more expensive.
  • Some advocate aggressive triage before scanning; others find triage slower than bulk digitization and prefer to cull afterward.
  • One person simply discarded thousands of inherited photos; others see that as shocking and argue to preserve for future genealogical interest.

Organizing, Archiving, and Access

  • Common strategies: simple folder structures by date, local NAS, static galleries, cold storage (e.g., Glacier), and occasional cloud.
  • Concerns about long‑term durability: risk of “bit rot,” expired cloud accounts, and fragile optical media.
  • Several lament the lack of robust, future‑proof archival software; suggestions include open or self‑hosted tools (Nextcloud, PhotoPrism, Immich, Lychee, Mylio, Tropy, etc.).
  • Labeling and naming people is seen as critical; many have unlabeled 19th–20th‑century portraits whose subjects are now unknowable.
  • Some use face recognition (commercial or cloud APIs) with mixed success.

Photos vs Video

  • Many regret not taking more video; even low‑quality clips of kids and daily life are cherished.
  • Others warn video is harder to rewatch in bulk; photos allow fast scanning, so both are recommended.
  • Contrarian view: “never take photos, only video” meets strong disagreement; posters argue stills and motion capture different kinds of memory.

Tools, Gear, and Capture Practices

  • Phones are considered “good enough” for most memory work; metadata (time, location, faces) helps later organization.
  • Some emphasize learning basic light use over composition rules; others insist the emotional moment matters more than technical quality.
  • Opinions differ on burst shooting vs. more deliberate, film‑style restraint due to the time cost of sorting.
  • Drones and gimbal cameras inspire enthusiasm for unique perspectives, but also pushback over noise, legal limits, and intrusiveness.

Emotional and Ethical Perspectives

  • A minority openly dislike photos, avoid taking them, and feel no obligation to archive for others.
  • Others feel a strong duty to curate and label as an act of care for descendants.
  • Several note that revisiting old media (slides, VHS, MiniDV) can be emotionally heavy but ultimately rewarding.