50 Years of Travel Tips

Traveling Light & Luggage Strategy

  • Strong consensus that lighter is better; many say 40–45L backpack + small personal item is enough for indefinite city travel.
  • Mixed business/hiking/formal trips are the hardest to keep carry-on only; shoes and dress wear are the main constraint.
  • Debate on wheeled vs non‑wheeled: backpacks give more freedom, but small checked bags can make boarding easier if you tolerate lost‑luggage risk.
  • General rule: one main bag plus at most one small extra; more than three items becomes unmanageable.

Planning, Packing & Checklists

  • Many advocate detailed checklists (prep, packing, last‑minute house checks) refined over multiple trips.
  • Others intentionally underpack, relying on buying missing items on arrival, but several push back that this wastes precious vacation time.
  • Packing cubes and small pre‑assembled “kits” (first aid, chargers, toiletries) are popular to reduce decision overhead.

Money, Phones & Digital Backup

  • Core minimum: passport + at least one credit/debit card; several add “some cash” and a backup card from a different bank.
  • Disagreement on “you can always buy a phone locally”: concerns around 2FA, password managers, eSIMs, and account recovery.
  • Suggested mitigations: hardware keys (Yubikey), printed recovery codes/secret keys, spare old phone, paper itinerary and key contacts.

Costs & Styles of Travel

  • Big gap between “$2,000/night luxury” and “$1,000/month backpacking”; some call the former “vacationeering,” not “travel.”
  • Multiple reports of transformative, ultra‑budget trips (India, Nepal, Latin America) versus more comfortable mid‑range month‑long trips (~$10k).

Safety, Risk & Transport

  • Strong disagreement with “trust everyone and smile” as primary safety advice, especially from women and big‑city residents; scams and theft are common.
  • Heavier caution for solo women: always have an exit, avoid isolated situations, don’t follow the “just smile” rule.
  • Moto‑taxis: some embrace them as essential in traffic‑choked cities; others refuse due to lack of helmets, poor road safety, and weak healthcare.

Food & Health

  • Many agree sickness doesn’t neatly correlate with “fancy vs street,” but: avoid raw/uncooked items and suspect water/ice.
  • Emphasis on hand hygiene and tiny first‑aid kits (painkillers, anti‑diarrheals, blister care) as high‑value, low‑weight items.

Interaction with Locals & “Main Character” Behavior

  • Gentle version endorsed: be curious, talk to drivers/locals, accept genuine invitations, join when asked.
  • Harsh criticism of tips like “visit your driver’s mother” or “crash a wedding”: seen as rude, exploitative, “white tourist in poor country” behavior that ignores the mother’s perspective and local norms.
  • Several note that advice clearly reflects a privileged white male experience; can be unsafe or impossible for women and non‑white travelers.

Tools, Apps & Logistics

  • Frequently mentioned: FlightAware/FR24, Google Maps (with offline maps), OSM-based apps, airline/hotel/taxi apps, Seat61, TripIt, Wikivoyage, local taxi apps (Grab, G7, FreeNow).
  • Airport lounges viewed as formerly great but increasingly overcrowded; some prefer spending that money on better experiences instead.

Other Perspectives

  • Some don’t enjoy travel at all and feel pressured by its status‑symbol role.
  • Travel with kids is acknowledged as a fundamentally different category requiring its own strategies.