Stamina Is a Quiet Advantage
Stamina vs. Stimulants and Pleasure
- Several comments distinguish “true” stamina from drug-fueled productivity; heavy use of caffeine and nootropics is described as compensating for a lack of stamina, not evidence of it.
- One view: stimulants mainly increase pleasure and make tasks tolerable; real stamina is enduring lack of pleasure in pursuit of something good.
- Counterpoint: framing pleasure vs. the good as opposites is misleading; when work is genuinely “good,” it’s often naturally rewarding, and chemicals may be filling a gap where the work itself is not.
Focus, Distraction, and Motivation
- Stamina is linked to saying “no” to distractions and competing opportunities; focus is framed as a quiet superpower.
- Simple models are proposed: e.g., Focus = Energy – Distraction; Success = Focus × Time, plus a “luck” term some argue is crucial but uncontrollable.
- Another model (from procrastination research) treats motivation as expectancy × value divided by impulsiveness × delay.
- Debate over tactics: some emphasize tiny habits and making tasks easy; others say small habits never stick and they need big, intense commitments.
Persistence, Stubbornness, and Being Right
- Many agree persistence often beats raw intelligence: just staying with hard problems can be transformative for careers.
- Others stress persistence is a double-edged sword: stubbornness plus being wrong leads to wasted lives and forgotten scientists; sunk-cost fallacy is a real risk.
The Hidden Cost of Extreme Stamina
- Multiple intense personal stories describe working or caregiving at “110%” for years (degrees while working full-time, major illness, NICU babies, big projects during personal crises).
- After such periods, people report a lasting change: difficulty feeling joy, loss of “inner reserve,” emotional numbness, or reduced will to push hard again.
- Some attribute this to burnout-like processes and chronic compartmentalization of feelings; therapy and time help but don’t fully restore the old self.
- There’s debate whether this is mostly aging, cumulative trauma, or a one-time depletion of some non-renewable inner resource.
Where and When to Spend Stamina
- Several comments emphasize that stamina only helps if the goal is well-chosen (career moves, equity in startups, relationships, academic paths).
- Advice: save maximal effort for situations where you share in the upside (e.g., good founding roles) and avoid burning out for low-ownership, dysfunctional environments.
Culture, Interest, and Built Stamina
- Observations from Asia highlight cultural norms of “eating bitterness” and extreme study schedules as examples of socially reinforced stamina.
- Commenters note their own capacity varies dramatically with interest: they can work endlessly on engaging tasks but “chew glass” on others.
Skepticism and Limits
- Some argue habits outperform raw stamina over the long term.
- A minority is strongly skeptical of stamina/self-help narratives, noting that for some skills, thousands of hours don’t yield improvement, so “just persist” advice can mislead or blame the strugglers.