A lifetime of social ties adds up to healthy aging
Study quality, methods, and causation
- Several commenters see a “big jump” from social patterns to molecular outcomes and think the press release overstates causality.
- Critiques: reliance on self-reported social history; risk of spurious correlations; many unmeasured confounders (physical activity, attractiveness, personality, mental health).
- Defenses: the underlying dataset is longitudinal (~30 years); prior work on it showed similar results; models adjust for age, sex, race/ethnicity, education, and income with some care to avoid over-/mis-adjustment.
- Ongoing dispute over direction of causality:
- One side: obvious that healthier people can and do socialize more; assuming the reverse without strong mechanism is “trash science.”
- Other side: biology is bidirectional; social support could plausibly reduce stress, improve access to care, and modulate inflammation.
What “social ties” mean (and what they don’t)
- Many stress the distinction between real-world, practical ties (people who will show up, hug you, help you move) and weak or purely online connections.
- Some ask whether social media communities might produce similar effects; responses are mostly skeptical but note emerging research on social media and inflammatory markers.
- People emphasize “mental isolation” and having at least one person you can talk to about deep or traumatic issues, not just a raw friend count.
Anecdotes of loneliness and friendship dynamics
- Numerous middle-aged commenters describe having zero or one real friend, often after moving, having children, or losing situational friend groups (school, kids’ activities, offices).
- Several say they pre-emptively avoid closeness to avoid later rejection, recognize the pattern in therapy, and aren’t sure they want to change.
- Introverts report being content with minimal contact, or finding most friendships draining or low-quality, yet still worry about health and longevity effects.
- Suggestions: deliberately create interaction contexts (church, clubs, hobbies, bars, “friends” features in apps), and accept that most ties are situational and may fade.
Nature of ties: drinking buddies, “blue zones,” and addiction
- Many argue that even “drinking buddies” can be beneficial because the social connection, laughter, and routine may outweigh moderate alcohol risks.
- Debate over “blue zones”: some suspect pension fraud and changing diets; others reject fraud explanations as biased and emphasize processed food and lifestyle change.
- Long subthread on alcohol and addiction:
- Non-addicted people can simply enjoy social drinking;
- For addicts, only abstinence plus some structured social framework (AA, church, etc.) reliably helps, and that structure itself is a powerful social tie.
Concept of “healthy aging”
- A few insist aging is inherently pathological, so “healthy aging” is a contradiction.
- Others respond that the phrase just means slower-than-average deterioration—analogous to calling one unhealthy option “healthier” than another.
Mechanisms and open questions
- Proposed pathways: chronic inflammation, epigenetic aging, stress systems, neuroimmune interfaces, laughter, exercise, cognitive stimulation, and diet patterns that come with eating socially.
- Some note the study did not find effects on short-term stress hormones (cortisol, catecholamines), leaving mechanisms unclear.
- Several commenters wish future work would unpack what aspects of social life (quality, reciprocity, type of interaction) drive the biological changes, rather than stopping at the broad label “social ties.”