A lifetime of social ties adds up to healthy aging

Study quality, methods, and causation

  • Several commenters see a “big jump” from social patterns to molecular outcomes and think the press release overstates causality.
  • Critiques: reliance on self-reported social history; risk of spurious correlations; many unmeasured confounders (physical activity, attractiveness, personality, mental health).
  • Defenses: the underlying dataset is longitudinal (~30 years); prior work on it showed similar results; models adjust for age, sex, race/ethnicity, education, and income with some care to avoid over-/mis-adjustment.
  • Ongoing dispute over direction of causality:
    • One side: obvious that healthier people can and do socialize more; assuming the reverse without strong mechanism is “trash science.”
    • Other side: biology is bidirectional; social support could plausibly reduce stress, improve access to care, and modulate inflammation.

What “social ties” mean (and what they don’t)

  • Many stress the distinction between real-world, practical ties (people who will show up, hug you, help you move) and weak or purely online connections.
  • Some ask whether social media communities might produce similar effects; responses are mostly skeptical but note emerging research on social media and inflammatory markers.
  • People emphasize “mental isolation” and having at least one person you can talk to about deep or traumatic issues, not just a raw friend count.

Anecdotes of loneliness and friendship dynamics

  • Numerous middle-aged commenters describe having zero or one real friend, often after moving, having children, or losing situational friend groups (school, kids’ activities, offices).
  • Several say they pre-emptively avoid closeness to avoid later rejection, recognize the pattern in therapy, and aren’t sure they want to change.
  • Introverts report being content with minimal contact, or finding most friendships draining or low-quality, yet still worry about health and longevity effects.
  • Suggestions: deliberately create interaction contexts (church, clubs, hobbies, bars, “friends” features in apps), and accept that most ties are situational and may fade.

Nature of ties: drinking buddies, “blue zones,” and addiction

  • Many argue that even “drinking buddies” can be beneficial because the social connection, laughter, and routine may outweigh moderate alcohol risks.
  • Debate over “blue zones”: some suspect pension fraud and changing diets; others reject fraud explanations as biased and emphasize processed food and lifestyle change.
  • Long subthread on alcohol and addiction:
    • Non-addicted people can simply enjoy social drinking;
    • For addicts, only abstinence plus some structured social framework (AA, church, etc.) reliably helps, and that structure itself is a powerful social tie.

Concept of “healthy aging”

  • A few insist aging is inherently pathological, so “healthy aging” is a contradiction.
  • Others respond that the phrase just means slower-than-average deterioration—analogous to calling one unhealthy option “healthier” than another.

Mechanisms and open questions

  • Proposed pathways: chronic inflammation, epigenetic aging, stress systems, neuroimmune interfaces, laughter, exercise, cognitive stimulation, and diet patterns that come with eating socially.
  • Some note the study did not find effects on short-term stress hormones (cortisol, catecholamines), leaving mechanisms unclear.
  • Several commenters wish future work would unpack what aspects of social life (quality, reciprocity, type of interaction) drive the biological changes, rather than stopping at the broad label “social ties.”