Have ‘hobby’ apps become the new social networks?
Hobby-focused apps and activities like Strava, run clubs, climbing gyms, Twitch channels, and niche forums are increasingly filling the role that traditional social networks and third places once played, helping people find community, motivation, and sometimes even romantic partners. Commenters highlight how shared activities create low‑stakes, less “performative” environments than mainstream social media or hookup‑oriented dating apps, but note pitfalls such as gender imbalance, people using hobby spaces primarily to date, and the fragility of relationships built around a single activity. Others point to privacy and safety issues in “users near you” features, the decline of platforms like Meetup, and a broader desire for tools that enable local, interest-based connections without heavy monetization or centralized control.
Hobby Apps as Social Networks
- Many see “hobby apps” (Strava, Letterboxd, Goodreads, etc.) as de facto social networks: shared activity plus light interaction, without a global “town square.”
- Others argue this isn’t new; it resembles old Usenet/forums and is just the cycle between niche communities and centralized platforms.
- Some criticize gamification and low-effort content (e.g., Letterboxd “tweet-like” reviews) and note we still lack a true “Goodreads for film.”
Dating, Hookups, and Relationships
- Strong support for the idea that shared activities and low-stakes interaction are excellent for forming romantic and platonic relationships.
- Several stress that long-term relationships rest more on shared values and day-to-day compatibility than sexual chemistry alone.
- Others counter that common interests are overrated; many couples share few hobbies but enjoy each other’s presence and exploring differences.
- Debate over “hookup culture”: some say it’s harmful and oversold; others argue hookup culture is still stigmatized and purity norms dominate.
Hobbies, Gender, and Social Dynamics
- Many online “fun” spaces and tech-oriented hobbies are described as male-dominated; some women report female-heavy communities tend to be private and carefully moderated.
- Disagreement over whether most hobbies are male-leaning vs. many being female-leaning or mixed (e.g., dance, yoga, crafts).
- Some men note their own hobbies (cars, motorcycles, gaming) are poor for meeting women, leading them to pursue less-interesting activities for dating purposes.
Strava and Fitness Platforms
- Mixed views on Strava: valuable as a tracking and encouragement tool, especially when paired with in-person group rides; but many dislike its competitive and social pressure.
- Some users switch to more private or less social tools (Garmin Connect, RideWithGPS, Komoot) or turn Strava social features off.
- Privacy/safety concerns raised around features like Flyby and heatmaps revealing home locations or military facilities.
Third Places and Offline Community
- Strong emphasis on “third places” (beyond home and work) like clubs, gyms, run groups, language classes, and hobby meetups as crucial for mental health and relationships.
- Frustration that platforms like Meetup have declined or become commercialized; in some areas, Discord servers and local clubs partially fill the gap.
Location Features, Safety, and Moderation
- Some want stronger “users near you” discovery across platforms to bridge online and local communities.
- Others highlight abuse and safety risks of proximity features, especially for stalking and harassment.
- Tangents on free speech and hate groups: disagreement over whether more offline organizing by extremists is good (for deradicalization) or should be restricted.