Have ‘hobby’ apps become the new social networks?

Hobby Apps as Social Networks

• Many see “hobby apps” (Strava, Letterboxd, Goodreads, etc.) as de facto social networks: shared activity plus light interaction, without a global “town square.”
• Others argue this isn’t new; it resembles old Usenet/forums and is just the cycle between niche communities and centralized platforms.
• Some criticize gamification and low-effort content (e.g., Letterboxd “tweet-like” reviews) and note we still lack a true “Goodreads for film.”

Dating, Hookups, and Relationships

• Strong support for the idea that shared activities and low-stakes interaction are excellent for forming romantic and platonic relationships.
• Several stress that long-term relationships rest more on shared values and day-to-day compatibility than sexual chemistry alone.
• Others counter that common interests are overrated; many couples share few hobbies but enjoy each other’s presence and exploring differences.
• Debate over “hookup culture”: some say it’s harmful and oversold; others argue hookup culture is still stigmatized and purity norms dominate.

Hobbies, Gender, and Social Dynamics

• Many online “fun” spaces and tech-oriented hobbies are described as male-dominated; some women report female-heavy communities tend to be private and carefully moderated.
• Disagreement over whether most hobbies are male-leaning vs. many being female-leaning or mixed (e.g., dance, yoga, crafts).
• Some men note their own hobbies (cars, motorcycles, gaming) are poor for meeting women, leading them to pursue less-interesting activities for dating purposes.

Strava and Fitness Platforms

• Mixed views on Strava: valuable as a tracking and encouragement tool, especially when paired with in-person group rides; but many dislike its competitive and social pressure.
• Some users switch to more private or less social tools (Garmin Connect, RideWithGPS, Komoot) or turn Strava social features off.
• Privacy/safety concerns raised around features like Flyby and heatmaps revealing home locations or military facilities.

Third Places and Offline Community

• Strong emphasis on “third places” (beyond home and work) like clubs, gyms, run groups, language classes, and hobby meetups as crucial for mental health and relationships.
• Frustration that platforms like Meetup have declined or become commercialized; in some areas, Discord servers and local clubs partially fill the gap.

Location Features, Safety, and Moderation

• Some want stronger “users near you” discovery across platforms to bridge online and local communities.
• Others highlight abuse and safety risks of proximity features, especially for stalking and harassment.
• Tangents on free speech and hate groups: disagreement over whether more offline organizing by extremists is good (for deradicalization) or should be restricted.