'Everybody is looking at their phones,' says man freed after 30 years in prison

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Adaptation to Smartphones After Long Incarceration

  • Several commenters with direct experience say people released after decades adapt to smartphones quickly, especially since many prisons now have tablets for media and messaging.
  • The “surprise” isn’t that phones exist, but how pervasively and compulsively they’re used in public life.

Ubiquity and “Addiction”

  • Many describe public spaces (buses, cafes, parks) as filled with people “zombified” by their phones, including very young children.
  • Phone use is compared to drugs, cybernetics, or an “epidemic,” with specific concern about scrolling during driving, parenting, and social gatherings.
  • Some report trying phone-free periods and noticing genuine withdrawal-like discomfort when forced to “just wait” or be bored.

Social and Psychological Effects

  • Several say they avoid eye contact by staring at phones, continuing older habits (newspapers, books) of shielding from strangers.
  • Others argue we’re more connected digitally but more lonely and isolated emotionally.
  • There is debate over whether online interaction “counts” as real socializing; some prefer it for control and clarity, others say this means they haven’t found the right in-person relationships.

Continuity with the Past

  • Commenters point out that pre-smartphone commuters also avoided each other, usually with newspapers or books; smartphones are seen as a more powerful continuation, not a total break.
  • Nostalgic stories about school buses, books, PDAs, and early mobile tech contrast with today’s constant video feeds and social media.

Coping Strategies and Resistance

  • Suggestions include phone boxes at gatherings, removing infinite-scroll apps, turning off notifications, using phones mainly as creative tools, and attending gadget-free retreats.
  • Some anticipate a future “anti-phone” or “offline” subculture as a social signal.

Dependence and Infrastructure

  • Concerns are raised about needing modern phones for payments, school communications, WhatsApp groups, and basic social inclusion.
  • Debates emerge around cashless living, hygiene fears, and how far dependence on corporate platforms has gone.

Overlooked Issue: Wrongful Imprisonment

  • A minority note that the truly shocking element is the likely wrongful 30-year incarceration, which the article largely glosses over.